Cutting corners and working smarter not harder is their catchphrase. He can't see or type his sister's name in his FB IM? We talked on the work phone but never in person 1997 till 2002 and just to show her the engagement ring and never since. She talks shit about everyone and try to coaxes you into hating those people that she hates as well. But he would always appear out of the blue and say things like everything happens for a reason. The negative side of Libra is hard to bear. hi, i would like to know which one is more accurate sun sign or moon sign. One moment she's all sweet and kind, the next she's picking fights with me. But if they open up, their anger and sadness could lead to disaster. Yes I do throw tantrums and become manipulative but only when I am wronged and taken advantage of for a long time. I'm sorry many of you have had incredibly bad experiences with Librans, but understand that not all of them deserve to be so harshly judged. Pisces is the most sensitive sign in the zodiac. Not all Librans try to make it up to people, but I know a good portion of them out there do. Obviously, we have our cons, on which I can speak myself. She is an extremely toxic person. This might take some time, but once you go to yourself first for consolation and try some introspection, you can learn how to manage your emotions around others and even figure out what makes you feel better in times of stress or sadness, helping you bounce back quicker and better than ever. Scorpios are all about ruining your life and possibly planning to kill by all means. But my current partner said the same thing as the last guy that I was bipolar, vindictive, and crazy. I love her like a sister. They become anxious, isolated, and tend to "feel everything" in an attempt to cope with this giant wave of emotion. in the meantime she was trying to chat him up. If you cross my line you're already in the game of life or death for me. And wanted an apology. Even though they do love their mother, greatly, their elemental make up naturally gravitates towards mine, only on the basis that we understand each other on a level she will never understand, she is a Virgo sun/Cancer moon. Libras Are Trusting & Trustworthy Because they're all about trust. If she is pushed into a conversation, then she may try to avoid specific aspects of the conversation. She only wants information to use against them. I am afraid of settling down with someone. One of the typical tactic of abusers things he did was try to "isolate" me from my friends and family. While we were dating i let her know about my one true longtime best friend which was my first ex (gemini)from high school yrs (different schools). This content is accurate and true to the best of the authors knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional. You can't be weak around these majestic women. He's cray cray!! Libra Woman. RELATED: What Happens When A Libra Is Hurt? The usually-carefree Pisces can get into a gloom and doom state when sad. Yes, at this point I'm the meanest person i know. I honestly think they smell it. So I think it's a useful observation, but in no way it should put other Libras down. she can do as she pleases. Fang you at this point. I went along with it till one day I said something to him and he blew up saying Im criticizing him which left me in shock. I think it's true that Libras like things balanced and harmonious. Libra (September 23 - October 22) She may have a hard time . You should have gone to the shrink when he asked you to! This is not true ! Woo hoo party & thats about all theyre good for. What happens when all the fun and excitement of being in a relationship is over??? its like they trick themselves they feed their demons till they are so very full and they enjoy it. Yes I do get angry and yes I get angry a lot sometimes. Shes ugly on the inside and on the outside and she's vain for no reason. o que associo a cada signo aries: personalidade touro: inflexvel gmeos: ingenuidade cncer: terapia (precisam mt) leo: ignorncia virgem: sociopatia libra: inconvenincia escorpio: intimidade sagitrio: hide sadness behind beautiful smile aquario: metidos peixes: sonsos glil ou. My strict advice as a Leo, NEVER EVER GO FOR A SCORPIO no matter if ur sign is a good match and if u do get along in the startU will just end up ruined or even dead. controlling. To start with, yes when we are grumpy we are the worst thing that can happen to humanity. She thinks I walked out on her? Libra men often have a hard time speaking their feelings, and they often bottle up their emotions. I was 9 y/o and he was 16. I was so offended. This can harm their relationship with others. As a matter of fact, I won't let myself around these libras because they do charm well and I now see charmers as nothing but a sticky web, don't get too close. Caregivers who mask their own emotions can also reinforce the idea that you should do the same . I learned my lesson and I try to avoid Libra when is about relationship. Sylvia Sky (author) from USA on October 08, 2016: Shewolf, it is painful for all when people don't understand us. My experience with a Libran is usually very superficial and passive. It's one way to alert someone that you're angry with them and get them to give you some attention without having to ask for it in a direct way. When that happens, I've learned to respect myself and just move on. I realize Libras can be a handful and it takes a special person to be with one of us; but may I suggest to all of you that the moment you find out a person is a Libra, turn on your heel and run. The laziness, the controling, able to move from one relationship to another one. I hide my negative emotions and just keep it. Sat there listening in while this self righteous weirdo was really out of line! I can agree with some of the second parts of statements: e.g. But if they open up, their anger and sadness could lead to disaster. The stereotype that portrays us like a sweet candy floss and charming lucky charms is so misleading. The shadows are her home! Librans are gifted with eloquence and intelligence but cant make a concrete decision to save their life! Also as soon they breakup with you and have someone else in their life, they wont let you go that fast because they want to track every step of you, and they hate confrontation but love drama. It will benefit her if you take the time to support her by giving her the means to explore her interests. I am a only child also raised by a Libra mother. But that is a learned thing. The women are backbiting, self-absorbed, jealous and very lazy! I learned the term for what Libras do to create this unnecessary drama it's called TRIANGULATION! You've hit every nail on the head (or should I say the nail to every Psychic Vampyre Libran's Coffin.. ). And I don't want to become a mother after all I read here , It's a big responsibility that I can't handle I'm very fragile and need someone to constantly take care of me. I didn't thank god my parents were there to snap me out of it. I dont know. This can make it difficult for them to express themselves and may cause them to avoid conflict at all costs. Warning signs. No one believes he's got so many dark secrets in his life but only the very close ones to him, like his ex-wife who I learned, only once they got divorced, that he was very aggressive to her indoors. Libras strive for balance when hurt, making it hard to tell when something is wrong. :( Bad ex maybe? I have a Libra sister. Is your love language what you give or receive? They just say: If thats what it takes. I'm a virgo male and married a female libra. Thinking nothing of it as that's how she is, she started laying it on thick, changing her tone in her texts and emojis (I only mention that bc they seem fascinated with the damn things). I learned to not tell secrets. (Mr. Libra perceived that as "popular"). Am I going to take out all my frustrations on my wife and kids even???? Librans might speak kindly in public, but even the best ones do not really believe others have feelings or brains. I'm a libra myself. Finally, to our regret, years later we gave up and let the kids go since she was ruining our and their lives in the process of her severe selfishness. Most Emotionally Strong Zodiac Signs. RELATED: What Taurus Is Like In Relationships. Known for being indecisive and eager to please, this air sign is unlikely to ever initiate a breakup and very likely to mourn one long after it's over. As a result, you hide your sadness, fear, frustration, and other so-called negative emotions. We can see all sides to all things.all dimensions.all patterns..all rhythms.all nuances. I dont think I'm fake or that im better than anyone bc the only perfect one is God and ive had a too messed up childhood to think im better than anyone, also being my father recently passed this year Feb 2019. me, me, me..lie. They are usually gentle and slow to anger, but can turn vicious in a moment if need be. She was having an affair with a much younger man who lavished gifts on her constantly, this we knew was true, she talked terribly about him behind his back, belittling berating and putting him down constantly, she would talk badly about other staff when she thought no one was around, if you caught her at it and called her out on her behaviour then you could count yourself the enemy. He ignores me somedays pays attention to me other days and never fully knows if he likes me or not lol. I think the problem is that you were too selfish and judgemental instead of taking the time and making a genuine effort to get to know and understand a Libra better, you chose to ASSume, criticize, demean, and judge someone you never really got to know. Another one I knew years later did the same; hard to believe, but true! But my "dark side" is also my "sunny side". Or so I thought. You may want to look in the mirror first. At my request of clarification he said "oh well he doesn't like certain things, like when I play a bit with him, he gets furious". Hello, i am a libra woman Oct 16th, so kinda right there in the middle and i wont lie and say i wasnt offended by this article bc yes! Yes, alot of these opinions are true but thats why they call them opinions, everyone has one. Like someone mentioned in a comments below, Libras have a gut feeling that is almost always accurate and they should definetely trust that. Libras love with a passion. She was not a perfect person, but she did help many, many people and was instrumental in laying the groundwork to raise consciousness from the 3rd to the 4th dimension. To be honest, I am more aware of my faults than of my strengths. RELATED:The Saddest Zodiac Signs That Are Most Likely To Be Depressed. (2) Really? Libra women, when sad or upset, often find that their behaviors betray their emotional turmoil. It sux to say but all these dark traits are traits I have observed in myself to some degree (some more than others) and I feel it growing. They are experts at reading people and can usually tell when someone is not ready to hear what they have to say. Tell you sad stories, tell you that you knows them better than themselves, that you are their savior. So while avoiding ugliness and confrontations, I work hard to make those things never happen. I know that sounds brash, and probably just as bad as how Librans have been painted on here, but there is a very specific driving force as to why I acted the way that I did, and it's because of how how she treated my children. I think Libra's are not all heartless, but they tend to be very practical and don't marinate in their emotions a lot. I am a bi Leo female and fell for this Libra woman, who I have been friends with for around 2-3 years, and fell for her over a year ago. Libras are known to hide their real feelings in order to avoid conflicts with the people around them. Librans are extroverted, cosy, and friendly people. I DO NOT manipulate people to help myself and I don't cheat and make others feel bad when confronted. One is highly generous, but very, very controlling, everything HAS TO go their way. I want to build you up, only to make you look like a fool and encourage you to make the wrong decisions for my amusement. So if i find your chatty, im out of here. Tired Aries woman sick of the Libra injustice. she is to this day. I tried several times to con myself that perhaps my gut instinct was off, I'd since found out she was a Libra, I'd never met one until then (that's a whole 36 years without knowing a Libra, I wasn't missing anything). However, sometimes the Libra man tends to hide his emotions, and it can be difficult to read their energy. Asked us who we thought the dot was, we shrugged, he then told us it was the very libra I am talking about. Thank God doctors brought me back alive. Kids now tell us that Mom uses people for money, and gets in an uproar out of the blue. How To Impress Libra Men? Emotional balance is so important to a Libra. I ended all contact. That is the only way you can truly be loyal. She was married to my dad (scorpio) and she would throw tantrums and do everything to get her way. But then again, it's for a good cause?). This is spot on. Wow, basically summed me all up. She may choose to pour all of her time and energy into a single task, while simultaneously ignoring more pragmatic or practical concerns. They have this bubbly, sweet and openminded personality and claim to only want peace; until you realize how much they crave dramas with all their badmouhthing against the people they claim to be "friends". My sister is cold, she does not care about people. I normally got along with everyone. Not a single libra I can truly trust. I just decided to keep my personal life private from her. Unfortunately, it can be hard for them to keep these emotions in, so those around them might feel backlash for a while. She wrote many books, you should read one of them. OK so now she knows many of my inner secrets and treating me like nothing really changed between us except less lovey dovey stuff. I try to always be fair and give everyone a fair chance. Beware of libra men. Our home is where we are the most stubborn, the most controlling, unyielding, vengeful selves. RELATED: What Makes Sagittarius Different? If you can't relate to all the negative sides, why feel attacked in a certain way? I don't particularly like this post but that's because it just doesn't fit me personally. Libra is often misunderstood and seen as the villian because they are too themselves. god if they had only known. When I meet new people, I always try and find a way of getting through the backdoor to their psyche - Astrology being my usual tool. When he learned I didn't own a car, he would "insist" on driving home from class. I really don't think there should ever be an article that claims EVERY libra does such and such.. that's like saying every American likes pizza. Saying Yes When They Mean No Libras hate arguing more than any other sign, so they often try to be agreeable in an attempt to avoid any possible conflict with their partner. We crave beauty and an ethereal, gossamer rythm to the world around us..and the people in our lives.but we never demand anything that those around us are incapable of providing. 1.) Mostly because most things I read about Libras don't feel like they connect with me. The second was a much much older woman that I used to work with was such a liar I mean she lied about everything she would embellish the facts so much so that it made everyone around her smile because they knew what she was up to and still she carried on, it became a bit of a joke amongst the staff, but the thing that stood out for me was how unbelievably cold hearted this woman was, I mean stone cold ruthless to the core, this libra was married, had been for many many years had several children with her husband apparently had suffered much abuse from her husband but continued to live with him because it suited her financially, her words, not mine! After a while i did not allow him to do much for me. Break out of your shell and be the life of the party. im prayin she would find a bf to get a distraction. When they do good they want that pat on the back. if you think you're leave a Libra or divorced him/her absolutely you thinking wrong We are spend 2-3 hours before buy/sell something so if we really don't want to leave we would never let you go. I wont bite ur head off lol. I dont like drama. im sure its not just the libra in her, she is a narcissist. Cancer is often emotional, needy, and will even cry after insignificant events, even if they see how silly they were acting after the fact. They see everyone as mindless and feel called to enlighten them. But, because I get impatient and irritated at other people's indecisiveness, I learned to make quick decisions and move on. He's a talker, someone who wants to deal with any problem in a relaxed and communicative manner. Thank you Sylvia for a well written article. I guarantee there was as much yelling in his home as there is in every Libra home. Librans can truly be cruel and selfish, manipulative and conniving. We've all got good and bad sides ofcourse since nobodys perfect but I find Libras so well rounded. When he offers and insists, i decline. on the rare times i could have a friend over she was sooo nice like she wanted them to like her. This is very true about Libras. As a Libran myself, I can see all my negative traits, for example; A technique that strangely comes naturally to me. Done. RELATED: How Do Pisces Act When They're Hurt. If they're a brilliant Libran, I will definitely listen. 1. We'd take up for a stranger in a minute if their being treated unfairly no matter color, race, sex, or religion if its unfair it brings the rage out in us. One of them that you should really fear about my dark side are my games that I put you in (you are my pawn and will always be until I get my revenge or I hear an apology if not you'll never be out of my loop until you're gone or I am). LIBRA: Libra tends to swallow their anger and sadness. Muahahahaha ;)~. Libra people are charming and very easy to attract you. Thankyou from the now bitter, cold, and unhopeful libra if unhopeful is a word lol. When it comes to you, on the other hand, he isn't reluctant to stand up for you. angry messages from friends and acquaintances without any apparent cause. The Universal Law Of One.would suggest that these are people are mirroring qualities you possess but do not like about yourself. I've been taken advantage a o lot by just caring too much and i get furious i throw all that hate in my family witch they do not deserve it .but at the end family is my home is when i want people to understand me, to listen me when im angry when im sad when i need a advise .we need to take care of ourselves but we do not do it because we put in priority others . Depends on the day of the month you were born. Hehe. Really a Pisces dreamworld is the realest compared to it. It is possible that her downcast feelings will develop into anger or rage. That only helps to make it clear that those people are not compatible and I don't want them in my life. Diplomatic, graceful, charming and even witty! i dnt care. They are highly intuitive and have a good grasp of psychology. she is a full blown malignant narcissist. This is very interesting; my mother is Libra and her vacillation between kind and cruel has kept me confused and emotionally bleeding for my entire almost 58 years on this earth. Simply with using second person nouns such as "You can," and "You should.". If you notice that she has isolated herself, then you should take the time to teach yourself about what happens when a Libra woman is sad. Who could hate Gandhi? All that's left (like the bad traits mentioned above which seemed to me like traits of a dangerous personality disorder) is formed depending on countless variables (the way one was raised, experiences etc..) we do have a dark side, but we don't all react the same way. They may share common general characteristics but that's it. I'm a Capricorn we are smarter than this. Im a full rounded scorpio, meaning, i know and accepts my flaws, faults and dark side. She doesn't have money or a job with 3 kids luckily I still support my kids and back to her parents house. Sylvia Sky (author) from USA on September 18, 2016: Chastity, this article is solely about Libra's dark side. Thats how you deal w a libra. trying to be frends with my friends cos she doesnt have any.. she wud sit in the room with her guys.. when they leave she comes and sits in the room where im relaxing with my frends. If look from the good side we're doing you a favor before you meet our Lucifer side so you must be happy :). If you showed fear or didnt talk back then she would consider you a friend. It's an incredibly difficult situation to be in when people don't believe you're telling the truth or being real. Libra shies away from conflict everywhereexcept within the family. 3.) Pretty damn true. Having two Libra sisters and a Libra friend of five years I have seen this time and time again. They are manipulators, competitive sickeningly beneath the surface. Do Libras Hide Their Emotions? 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