If you did that, they might come back to you because they are trying to ease the guilt they feel. I have changed my entire outlook on relationships and humans and how we work after my ex came back over 2 months ago and I ended up saying no after thinking Id always say yes. Then came back in early April when I went NC. Then he broke up in May. My ex broke up with me first time due to codependence. I worked on myself. I knew after so much failing it won’t work with him, also I … But there are some … You don’t want to get back together with your ex before 4-6 months have passed anyway. Months later I met new guy. The love letter is so true – thanjs for writing it up plainly. Getting back with an ex after years is possible. There are also exes who come back in order to make things right between the two of you as well as to alleviate any hard feelings. Alden says May 10, 2020 . 100%… And if I’m being honest here, from my experience I’d rather be dumped then being the dumper and I’ll tell you why. 2. And once I realised this was how my ex-friend ‘loved’ me (oh they told me they did things for me out of ‘love’ like telling me they had thought about getting me a present, but not actually getting it, not that it would have mattered because gifts are not my language i.e. However, 6 months later, we broke up again yesterday. You are probably in a lot of pain right now, so you likely won’t believe what I’m about to say. For example, perhaps the two of you ended on bad terms or you were completely blindsided by the breakup, and your ex may feel compelled to come back and apologize and/or set the record straight once and for all. It's your ex. Guilt: If you handled the breakup poorly by trying to talk your ex into getting back together, you likely tried to make them feel guilty about how they hurt you by breaking up with you.. As he already left me 2 times and didn’t care about me for so many months I rejected him. The reason for that is because dumpers need a lot of alone time to live their life the way they had envisioned. During no contact, he realised he still loved me and 3 months later, he came back. Twice. Then he broke up with me again in March this year. But unless you've committed some of the typical post-breakup mistakes, getting back with an ex is not dependent on you—but rather on your ex and the months and years of time. I know if I stick to NC he will come back … Chances of hearing from your ex years later are almost as high as hearing from him or her in the first month. Quite frankly, they are 11.1%. Yeah, that one, the guy who ripped your heart out and then stomped on it -- and then was adamant about how he wanted to "stay friends." All the advice on this forum will help you move on. He broke up with me in March last year. 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